September 20th-22nd, 2024

Becoming Us
Couples Retreat

A Two Day Retreat in
SCOTTSDALE, ARIZONA







September 20th-22nd, 2024

Becoming Us
Couples Retreat

A Three Day Retreat in
SCOTTSDALE, ARIZONA





OVERVIEW

Welcome & Invitation

The Becoming Us Retreat is a small, intimate retreat with up to 50 couples coming together to grow their marriage.

You'll work together as a group, individually with your spouse, and in separate groups of wives and husbands. You'll learn how to show up in your marriage as the person you desire to be and your spouse deserves.

At this Couples Retreat, we’ll utilize the Enneagram so you can…
- Get the practical tools to help you avoid marital landmines.
 - Identify the biggest blind spots in communication.
 - Understand the heart behind communication problems.
- Discover how to overcome unhealthy communication problems.
- Get your unique Enneagram Couple type and roadmap.

OVERVIEW

Welcome & Invitation

The Becoming Us Retreat is a small, intimate retreat with only 50 couples coming together to grow their marriage.

You'll work together as a group, individually with your spouse, and in separate groups of wives and husbands. You'll learn how to show up in your marriage as the person you desire to be and your spouse deserves.

At this Couples Retreat, we’ll utilize the enneagram so you can…
- Get the practical tools to help you avoid marital landmines.
 - Identify the biggest blind spots in communication.
 - Understand the heart behind communication problems.
- Discover how to overcome unhealthy communication problems.
- Get your unique Enneagram Couple type and roadmap.

The Experience

REST

Soak in the energy and connection at the RESORT. We booked this location with relaxation and restoration in mind.

Friday Night Dinner and activities are available to break the ice, connect with other couples, and laugh alongside your spouse

RESTORE

Dedicated time to workshop
privately with your spouse to
create real momentum
immediately.


Small group break-out
sessions will help you learn
about your personality and
how you can show up as the
spouse you want to be.

CONNECT

Use the Enneagram as a tool to understand, get a framework, and implement in your marriage. 


Participate in panel
discussions with Jenn and
Craig & Beth and Jeff by asking your burning questions and discussing real challenges.

CREATE

Get the playbook for success
and experience your best
date night ever on Saturday
night with your spouse. 


In-depth trainings are
available, where you'll get the
practical tools to create your
unique marriage roadmap.

Hosts & Special Guests Include

We have invited thought leaders to join us who will take us deeper into how to
practically apply these principles in our daily life throughout the weekend.

Beth and Jeff McCord

After growing through 29 years of marital ups and downs, there's nothing this duo loves more than coming alongside couples - armed with the tools of the Enneagram, they offer a better way to live and grow, together.

They've worked hard to create an entire platform to improve your marriage based on the Enneagram. Their live events give couples clarity into their unique personalities and relationship dynamics, helping them break free from unhealthy patterns and transform into the couple they've always wanted to be.

Jenn and Craig Kautsch

Jenn is the founder and creator of the SoberSis community and leader in the "Sober Curious" movement. It's her passion and life's calling to create a space where women can renegotiate their relationship with alcohol without labels, judgment or shame.

Although Jenn and Craig are opposites in many ways, they just celebrated their 29 year anniversary and are experiencing some of the best days of their life.

According to Craig, "The Enneagram has revolutionized our marriage and the way I look at Jenn and her core motivations."

As a couple, the Enneagram has become a useful tool for self discovery and better connection with their whole family!

Get an inside look at what you’ll experience
 at the Becoming Us Couples Retreat

Discover the Blueprint to Understanding Your Spouse Better
without the frustration of miscommunication, the repetition
of old arguments, or the feeling of being stuck in relational
patterns that no longer serve you.

ABOUT THE RESORT

The Scottsdale Plaza Resort & Villas



Overseen by Mummy Mountain’s purple peaks—and surrounded by the splendor of the Sonoran Desert—the sprawling Scottsdale Plaza Resort & Villas is the laid-back Arizona resort to gather, commune, relax, and get happy.

Whether it’s a day at one of their five pools, teeing off from any of Scottsdale’s nearby championship golf courses, or getting spoiled at the spa, each moment will be special.

With sunny skies, mountain views, and over 40 acres of gardens, even the most easygoing day here is unforgettable.

Indepth Topics and Conversation

During the retreat, you'll explore a variety of topics including how to support your spouse's Enneagram Type, become adept at resolving conflicts in a healthy manner, and cultivate mutual growth within your relationship.

Plus, you'll get answers to these questions:

 - Why do they always have to take things
 the wrong way?
 - Why do we keep having this argument?
- Why do I tend to say such hurtful things?
- Why don't we understand each other
anymore?

This Couples Retreat will help you...

Understand what makes your spouse tick (and get ticked off) by getting insights into how their unique personality combines with yours so you can find harmony and have fun again.

Disrupt normal communication patterns, disagreements, and hiccups by getting a robust toolbox and instructional manual for your marriage.

Ditch the petty arguments and improve communication so you can feel excited about talking to each other without worrying about certain topics causing arguments.

Feel more intimately connected and actually heard by your spouse by getting a deeper understanding of each other.

Breakthrough roadblocks that have been standing in the way of your marriage to gain a profound connection with your spouse, rooted in understanding and empathy.

Stop fighting about your parenting so you can get to the job of parenting and leverage the Enneagram to connect with family and kids (of all ages) on a deeper level to create a home of harmony again.

COUPLES RETREAT

Testimonials

We so appreciate Beth and Jeff’s helpful and honest approach to marriage in Becoming Us. They show us how understanding each other’s core fear, desire, weakness, and longings in light of the gospel can help us communicate with, and love one another, well.

Matt and Lauren Chandler
Matt: Author, pastor, president of the Acts 29 Network;
Lauren: Author, speaker, and singer/songwriter
We have seen firsthand, both in our marriage and in the marriages of countless others, how the Enneagram can bring couples closer, foster empathy, and provide a newfound appreciation for each other’s differences. Thank you, Beth and Jeff, for writing Becoming Us. Finally, we have a practical and godly tool that can be used to enrich, and even save, many marriages. We can’t wait to share it with others.

Gail & Michael Hyatt
Michael Hyatt & Co.

Limited Opportunity For Discounted Hotel Room Rates (grab yours before they're gone!)

We have rooms blocked off for y'all at $159 per night! Feel free to split this with other sisters if you'd like to share a room. (Availability is limited)

Your Retreat Ticket is your key to an incredible experience that will leave you inspired, empowered, and connected. 

Grab Your Ticket Below To 
Lock In Your Discounted Rate!

Limited Opportunity For Discounted Hotel Room Rates 
(grab yours before they're gone!)

We have rooms blocked off for y'all at $159 per night! Feel free to split this with other sisters if you'd like to share a room. (Availability is limited)

Your Retreat Ticket is your key to an incredible experience that will leave you inspired, empowered, and connected. 

Grab Your Ticket Below To 
Lock In Your Discounted Rate!

Pricing

Retreat Access
HERE'S WHAT'S INCLUDED...
  • Access to All Trainings and Workshops
  • ​All Meals Catered (excluding your private Saturday date night)
  • ​Panel Discussion with Jenn and Craig & Beth and Jeff
  • ​Break Out Sessions with Jenn and Beth & Craig and Jeff
  • ​Dedicated Time to Spend with your Spouse Privately
  • ​Best Date Night Ever Saturday Night (Playbook Included)
  • ​Pre-Retreat Video Course
  • ​Hard Copy Workbook for the Weekend
  • ​​Enneagram for Moms Book
  • ​​Becoming Us Book
  • ​12 Additional Digital Resources to Navigate Your Enneagram Type
  • ​Discounted Hotel Room Rate (Limited Availability!)
was $1997
$1697

* 2 Part Payment Plan Available

Tickets are non-refundable, 
but they ARE transferrable!

only 4 Tickets available
Premium Access*
HERE'S WHAT'S INCLUDED...
  • Access to All Trainings and Workshops
  • ​All Meals Catered (excluding your private Saturday date night)
  • ​Panel Discussion with Jenn and Craig & Beth and Jeff
  • ​Break Out Sessions with Jenn and Beth & Craig and Jeff
  • ​Dedicated Time to Spend with your Spouse Privately
  • ​Best Date Night Ever Saturday Night (Playbook Included)
  • Pre-Retreat Video Course
  • ​​Hard Copy Workbook for the Weekend
  • ​​Enneagram for Moms Book
  • ​​Becoming Us Book
  • ​12 Additional Digital Resources to Navigate Your Enneagram Type
  • ​Discounted Hotel Room Rate (Limited Availability!)
  • ​60 min Couple’s Private, Pre-Retreat Coaching Call with Beth and Jeff - Set up for Success
  • ​60 min Couple’s Private, Post-Retreat Coaching Call with Beth and Jeff - Remove the Roadblocks to Harmony
  • ​Private Saturday Date Night Dinner with Beth, Jeff, Jenn and Craig
Only 4 Tickets Available!
was $2997
$2697

* 2 Part Payment Plan Available

Tickets are non-refundable, 
but they ARE transferrable!

FAQs

What's NOT Included?
Hotel, transportation, and Saturday night meal (you'll be going on a private date with your spouse).

What Are The Dates/Times?
September 20th-22nd! We'll kick off the weekend with a Friday night dinner and wrap up Sunday around noon.

I'm Ready to Book My Travel! 
The airport closest to the Resort is Phoenix (PHX)(16.3 miles away). Hotel discounted group rate available.

What Should I Wear?
The dress code is casual for the retreat. Our meeting room might be on the cooler side, so plan accordingly.

Where Is The Retreat?
The Scottsdale Plaza Resort & Villas: 7200 N Scottsdale Rd, Paradise Valley, AZ 85253



What about the amenities?
Enjoy onsite dining, 5 swimming pools, nearby hiking trails, and more! (Don't worry, we've built in time for you to relax and have fun!) 

Can Anyone Attend This Event?
This is a Couples-only retreat.

Can I Get a Refund If I Can't Attend?
No refunds, BUT you may transfer your ticket to another Couple if you can't attend. In the unlikely event that the Retreat is canceled, you will be issued a full refund for your ticket.

Do I Have to Be Alcohol-Free To Attend?
The retreat is for any couple desiring to improve their marriage but as an event co-hosted by Sober Sis, we do encourage attendees to remain AF for this weekend.

Any Other Questions?
Shoot us an email at support@sobersis.com
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